So many people doubt themselves because they get stuck in their comfort zones. To never doubt yourself anymore you don’t even have to get out of your comfort zone, you have to expand your comfort zone.
Ask yourself this question, “am I focusing on what I fear or am I focusing on what I want?”. Which one is the most empowering thought between the two?
Focus on your desires and all the doubts will disappear.
You doubt yourself because you aspire to be someone else, therefore you are not thankful for who you are and you feel uncomfortable because it’s an unattainable goal to be someone else.
You can never replace who people are, you can only become your own greatest version.
Many people never feel they can live up to society’s expectations, more so they don’t feel they can live up to their own expectations.
You want the perfect body but you doubt yourself because you’ve been comparing yourself to someone else. When you create your own league, doubt disappears.
What happens when you surround yourself with friends that don’t care about you? You start absorbing their negative energy.
But what happens when you surround yourself with people that love you and encourage you? Your doubt disappears because you start absorbing their energy.
The more doubt we have, the less risk we want to take. The more risk we take, the more expansion occurs within ourselves.
There are people saying that the past was more exciting than the present. These people doubt themselves in the present moment because they don’t live in the present, they reminisce on the good old days.
Doubts emanates from a lack of intimacy. When you take action the doubt disappears. The power is in the now.
Some people say they are not worthy. They feel that whatever they do won’t make a difference to the world. You begin to doubt yourself when you feel that everything has already been said and done.
Guess what? You are right. But you are here to remix everything.
Once you place value on your talent and on your gift, self-doubt begins to fade away because whatever you have to offer is good enough. You give yourself a pass.
Some people can’t forgive themselves and that is why they constantly doubt themselves. They think other people are better than them.
It all comes from your perception. Once you start changing how you see yourself, you change what you become. Once you start connecting with those who remind you who you are, you doubt yourself less every single day.
We become like the people we surround ourselves with most often.
Find your reflections, but also give yourself permission to explore. Expand your comfort zone.
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